Keep conversation light and flirty. If he does want you, and you are okay with his offer, feel free to accept. Opt for solid colors, understated jewelry, and form fitting clothing. Or it could be just okay. Discuss and agree upon an allowance range. I regularly visit China. But you can also steal a glance at what kind of car he drives or his license plate number for future reference. Dress like the classy hoe that you are. Make sure your POT knows nothing sexual will happen on a first date. I have no regrets. Think of meeting your POT like having a real first date. There are also reposts that I like. Hopefully the tips I have for you gals will calm your nerves a bit. The sex will come soon enough if he ends up being your SD. Bring up a small donation or gift for your time. The sex will come soon enough if he ends up being your SD.