Give all things to God and He will be faithful to bring forth fruit that shows a Godly marriage. Many Blessings and much love to you. But I had to let the expectation of sex in our marriage go. When your sex drive disappears after having kids. Let's just say sexually speaking I notice a difference. Claire, My husband and I have been married for nine years and have two children, a three-year-old and five-year-old. This has really helped me. I hate that most of these post are glorifying giving up on your marriage. June 8, at 3: Than we decided to sit down and make of thing we like sexually and things we would like to try. We work hard to share our most timely and active conversations with you. Nachtigall, a gynecologist and reproductive endocrinologist at the New York University School of Medicine, who has been prescribing hormone therapies for more than two decades. Passionate Marriage: What about you? November 27, at Pregnancy Week by Week.