On a sunny day in Los Angeles, I walked into my small kitchen to the smell. Now and then, both of you may not be keen to have sex after a tiring day. And yet, shower sex is, like, some sort of life requirement. Skip navigation! Long showers are the best. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. And, remember, safety first. You want to be sure whichever you choose is paraben, petrochemical, and glycerin free. If oil-based is more your style, you can use something all natural like percent organic coconut oil or almond oil. Feeling Used by a Guy? With your partner behind you, bend over while they penetrate you from this angle. If have a detachable shower head or a waterproof vibrator like Crescendoyou could use this to pleasure yourself while pleasuring your partner. You can lather up after you've successfully had sex without falling; you don't need to throw something else into the mix that's going to up the injury ante. While we're arguably more in control of and confident about our sexuality than ever, there's still so much we don't know about female arousal. Now you can sit softly into their mouth and feel the pleasure of their tongue around this oh-so-sensitive area. There are plenty of amazing and not so amazing lubes out there. In this position your partner can penetrate you with their penis or sex toy from behind while supporting your hips. Unfortunately, shower sex is sometimes a better idea than actual sexual activity.