I really want to boost his ego by having it while he is on top. Time to upgrade. Again talk to your man about it. Michelle, you will find a whole host of great sex tips in the Bad Girls Bible newsletter here. My boyfriend has a broken arm and I am extremely insecure on top, could you recommend a few positions? Main Sex Positions Page 2. Quite often couple experiment with different positions but do not get the desired result. The other bit of advice is to make sure you keep trying new positions and techniques with your GF. I hate it. Toxins in Sex Toys. Give it a try, using plenty of lube, have her slide her finger slowly into your anus and see what pops up. Then be thankful cuz you can pound him hard! Additionally, if you want to learn my best blow job techniques and tips, then you will find them all in this tutorial video. Many women report that they find it easier to orgasm in a position like cowgirl because they can control how much clitoral stimulation they receive. Hi Shannon, Honestly, I think the best thing is to just talk to your man and let him know how you feel about things.