Using your standard, LilyM, articulated in your last paragraph, any sort of affection between two men or two women including friendship, it would seem is dangerous, and should be entirely anathema amongst homosexual people.
Analloeroticism Attraction to transgender people Kinsey scale Monosexuality Romantic orientation.
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The main question is I can't be with someone which I have no romantic feelings towards them.
This was also starting to affect my health with how much I was drinking in order to cope with these thoughts.
Will it differ from how people think about weddings for sexual people?
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Nowadays, in most of Western society, extensive handholding and constant kissing tends to have a more-than-friendly subtext attached, like it or not, intentional or not.
It might be helpful in all of this to look into defining when a homosexual orientation non-sinful according to Rome becomes a homosexual act sinful according to Rome.