Sex positions. You can tease them with a just-the-tip situation, or once you get them close, you can back off and start again. Most women find the regular cowgirl position to be the most comfortable and enjoyable. If the man separates his legs, the woman can put her legs between his. You see, when you're learning to ride a bike, you are going to start off thinking about what might go wrong. If you're interested in learning these techniques to keep your man addicted and deeply devoted to you as well as having a lot more fun in the bedroom, then you may want to check out the video. Use your words to guide your partner into an alternate position. So my husband and I have been having sex for over 2 years. To make this an active recovery, take a few seconds and move your hips in slow circles with him inside you. It may not provide him with a ton of pleasure, but you are guaranteed to enjoy it! Your partner gets a view from behind, and the whole thing feels really animalistic and hot because you're just going for it without even seeing your partner's face. Hi Danyel, Sometimes it can be a bit nerve-wrecking the first time you try out being on top. Most women find the regular cowgirl position to be the most comfortable and enjoyable. Once you figure this out, then it will be all pleasure! When my girlfriend and I have sex, I usually start on top and then I go down her until she cums. I love riding my man. We are 60 and 63 and have a great sex life every night sometime twice.